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Clarity comes fromÂ
understanding YOU better.
Over the years, you’ve become who
life needed you to be, but who you've
been is not all of who YOU are.
There's more of YOU dwelling quietly inside, waiting to be unlocked into your life. Now, in midlife, who you are and your potential have become unclear, uncertain, and uninspiring. In other words . . . you have no clarity.Â
Without clarity you're ...Â
- Not who you used to be but not sure who you are now.
- Feeling like you've outgrown your life.
- Finding yourself asking "Now what?"Â
- Wondering if what you're living is really is all there is.
- Wanting to change but not sure what to do or where to start.
What you need and where it starts is ... clarity.
Because clarity is what reveals the difference between who you’ve been and who you’re capable of becoming when you have the courage to finally start looking for YOU within.
When you have clarity, you become YOU,
then you can go beyond wishing for
a fulfilled life to actually creating one.
Clarity initiates identity.
Clarity creates confidence.
Clarity designs direction.
That means NO MORE guessing, confusion, or hidden disappointment through midlife. Instead you tap into your potential, embrace what's possible, and reclaim your true identity to start living as the woman you know you were always meant to be.
That's what you can
experience with the
Becoming YOU
Midlife Clarity Session
Becoming YOU
Midlife Clarity Session is a complimentary 60-minute private meeting, created specifically for women over 50 who feel disconnected from themselves, confused, or stuck.
During the session you will:
- 1 -
Uncover
. . . the hidden patterns and beliefs that are keeping your stuck.
-Â 2Â -
ConnectÂ
. . . with the woman you are NOW and your unique potential.
-Â 3Â -
Identify
. . . the areas of your life that are calling for your attention.
-Â 4Â -
Discover
. . . what's possible for you and a path to confidently move forward.
No coaching.  No pressure.  Just clarity.
It's a guided discovery process
for you to gain the kind of clarity
that changes EVERYTHING.
I'M READY FOR CLARITY

What is Becoming?
Becoming is responding to that inner knowing that there’s more for you and finally deciding to explore it.Â
It means no longer looking to the past or who you've been to define yourself. You stop chasing goals or reaching for a destination to "find" yourself. That's because it's not about searching for or fixing yourself—it’s about realigning with your truth and finally living from it.
During the Becoming YOU experience, you’ll start to remember parts of yourself that have been buried under roles, responsibilities, or old beliefs. You’ll recall what lights you up, what you’re capable of, and what’s truly possible for your future.
Imagine ...Â
- No longer wondering, "What's wrong with me?" and feeling empowered instead.Â
- Uncovering what you really want—without guilt, fear, or second-guessing.
- Seeing your age and life experiences as your best assets, not your limitations.
- Knowing how to create a life that feels more meaningful, fulfilling, and truly YOURS.
- Having clarity, confidence, and a new sense of direction for your future.
By the end of your
Becoming YOU
Midlife Clarity Session,
you'll start to experience this and so much more.
It’s one of the most life-changing
things you’ll ever do!

What Women Are Saying ... Â
"This is exactly what I needed.
I didn't even realize how
disconnected I had become with
myself. Deborah helped me see
what I couldn't see on my own."Â
- Linda M. -
"I started the session feeling
really lost and a little skeptical.Â
I'm happy to say that I ended
the session with the clarity I've
been chasing for years."
- Nancy T. -
"The session with Deborah
helped me to remember parts of
me I had forgotten. Now I'm clear
on who I am, who I want to
become, and where I want to go."Â
- Kathy S. -
Hello!
I'm Deborah Thomas
—and just like you, I’m a woman in midlife.
I know what it’s like to feel like you’ve lost yourself. To look around at a life you’ve built with love and care, yet still feel a quiet ache for more.
After a career in marketing, advertising, and television news, I stepped away to raise our nine (yes—9!) children. Over time, I forgot who I really was. I poured myself into my roles and responsibilities, and when midlife hit, it hit hard. I was overwhelmed by the changes and unsure of where I fit in my own life.
That led me to a 10-year journey of healing and personal development—my own becoming journey that helped me reconnect to myself. I worked with amazing coaches, learned transformational tools, and was guided by mentors to become the woman I am today.
As a certified Midlife Empowerment Coach, I’ve helped many women from different walks of life and countries rewrite their inner stories, reclaim their identity, and step boldly into their next chapter.
My mission now? To help as many women as possible do the same— shortening their learning curve with innovative principles, practical tools, and effective techniques.
I would love to be your guide to ...
Becoming YOUÂ
Let’s make midlife the most
transformative time of your life.
Because the best really is yet to come!
